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Wednesday, November 18, 2009


I've had a bad day, with bad news and I let it get me down. Then I reached out to someone who clearly needed help and they pushed my hand away so they could complain some more.

I would like to make a vow to myself right now:
I will not make excuses for my failures. 
If I want something bad enough, I am going to make it happen.
I will not whine like a baby (for more than a few minutes) when things dont go the way they were promised.
And while I can't control everything that happens in my life, I can control how I react to it.

Emotional Eating: 0 Amber: 1

Now bring it on!


  1. That's the way to go! You can do it!

  2. Well said ... stay strong ... you are doing great!!

  3. I'm sorry you had a bad day and for how people responded to your help. I understand how you feel. I think it helps to talk it out and this blog is a great way to do it so continue on. Jorge said we should use our community of fellow BFC'ers to help each other and I hope we can help you thru your tough times.

    The good news is you caught yourself today. Sometimes we fall and have trouble getting back on track but you are taking immediate action and you are determined not to let this get the best of you.

    As someone told me recently... ''Tomorrow is another day''.

    I enjoy reading comments people leave and the support we give each other I'm sure helps us both.

  4. Glad to see you standing in your power, Amber! At the 1 minute mark...sing along! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DDXZkBIxso4

  5. Keep strong - you are on the right path!
    When they are finally tired of complaining - they'll reach back out to you. if they don't you did your best.

  6. Thanks guys, I really appreciate your kind comments. I actually came to terms with my day by writing this!

  7. You are amazing Amber. A breath of fresh air. I really can't go back to the BFC Community blog - the whining and negativity there are disgusting and the Jorge bashing on other blogs is uncalled for. I'm very happy with my results and I truly appreciate your positive "can do" attitude. THX!


  8. Well, thank you very much John M. I think you must know exactly what I was talking about. But I learned something from that complaining... I don't ever want to be that person. Hope you are doing great on the BFC!

  9. You're welcome. I'm also following you on Twitter - you are very motivational. I'm down 15#'s.


  10. Amber, you are our super star, and I'm glad that you shared this moment with us. Hope all went better today for you. You come across as being a very strong, caring person. Everyone gravitates to you, and this is only a blog. Imagine how it must be in real life. Cheers!




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